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Invisible Personality

Because of my own face, people never get to know me. Because of this body, I'm not sure they want to. Now I catch a lot of crap from women who think its petty of me to whine about beauty, and I'm not...

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Invisible Personality Part II

I did indeed, get more than an eyeful of people who wanted to tell me off about my last post. I don't care. Those people interested in what I had to say at times, no longer want to partake? FINE, but...

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Catching up: JUNE

A new home, with a boyfriend and a puppy that I adore. And as per my usual, I have more to add to my plate as the summer ends and my work schedule needs to change so that I can accommodate Fall...

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Catching up: JUNE part II

This is where the story picks up the pace: That following Saturday, I was invited to, then ditched by my ride for party, and turned to my handy charioteer again. He picked me up and drove me out, but...

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Catching up: JULY

I kept working, or trying to, with Will as my ride, since I no longer had a vehicle. The cost of leaving home behind. I found myself listless and distracted, and when hours needed to be cut, I was the...

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Tabula Rasa

I can't catch up, so I'll start over. Starting today, starting now. You'll have to catch up as it applies. Any questions can and will be answered along this new journey. So close to new year's, a...

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The Rules: Time-tested secrets for capturing the heart of Mr. Right

I am a Rules Girl again, because I can't stand to have my boyfriend take me for granted anymore. What's even better? I think it's working. He says sweet things again, tells me he misses me again, has...

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How to be friends with your family on facebook

Getting along with your family is difficult enough in real life without also involving them in your social networks. You are judged and chastised by your parents/elders enough for what they find out...

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Discretion is learning to raise your eyebrow, instead of your voice

I was never a nag. Then again, I never felt like I needed to be. My word was valued and even sought after. Will is...more of a challenge. He's stubborn and determined to do things his way, even when he...

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Starting off the New Year properly... Or improperly

I told my family I wouldn't be home for the new year, that I would be spending it with Will. He picked me up and after some debate on where to celebrate, I made him drive me home to put on a real...

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The Dream Car

Now that Will has the car he wants, after trading in the car he'd just paid off, you'd think he'd be content. Enjoy it, show it off, even go so far as to not complain a single bit about it, with its...

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Taken men...

Should never stare a another woman. Should never talk about another woman. And another thing- they shouldn't let other men talk about their women. Will won't admit to it but I'm totally a trophy....

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Just Because Someone Doesn't Love You the Way You Want Them to Doesn't Mean...

But sometimes, it means it's not enough. Will is sweet, people tell me they can see that he loves me, but I'm not happy anymore. I don't feel butterflies around him, I have to drug myself in order to...

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The pain of a broken heart is not so much as to kill you, yet not so little...

Instead, you are tossed into an emotional and physical limbo as you try to pull the pieces back together and move on. For me, breaking up with Will and tearing my heart to pieces has become something...

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When a girl says "It's okay", "I'm fine", or "Don't worry about it", it's not...

Because all girls are liars? NOBecause they're waiting to find someone who actually wants the truth enough to push past those walls. People ask, as a courtesy "how are you doing?" and "are you okay?"...

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I have a lump in my breast

I have a lump in my breast, that they "hope" is just a fibroadenoma - a benign tumor. I have a tumor... In my breast.A sweet little marble shape, east of my right nipple.A tight little annoying bud in...

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A breast biopsy and other fun Valentine's Day adventures

Do not be fooled by my webcam... this is my right breast that got stabbedand such. Nice steri-strips and slight bruising to really set it off. Yes, you read that correctly... breast biopsy. For my...

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Why is it okay for you to talk to me while I'm on the toilet?

How I know you don't respect me #1047 - your need to ask me a question from OUTSIDE MY BATHROOM DOOR trumps any concern you may have over why it sounds like I'm dying in there - and any sense of...

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Is anyone out there?

I get all of these views on my blogs and posts, but comments are few and far between. Haha my last input from another person must have been a year ago, but the little ticker but which I measure my...

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I'm not okay (a breast biopsy part II)

After two weeks the nurse from my biopsy called me and said the results were good, I have nothing to worry about, and to follow up with my primary care doc with any questions. But this week I get the...

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